In India, I didn’t carry my camera with me very much. I wanted to really see things and experience them instead of looking through a camera lens the whole time. (Yes I did get the idea from the John Mayer song, but no I’m not ashamed.) And the times I did carry my camera, I didn’t get it out too much. In some cases I was just lazy, some I was worried about drawing attention to anything valuable, and in the case of the orphanage visit, I just really didn’t feel like having my camera used by all the kids. Anyway, there was a lot to experience in India.
The day we arrived, it took forever to get cleared by immigration. Getting in and out of the port each time was such a hassle. They checked our passports each time and signed us in and out. Very annoying and kind of weird. My friend Steven had invited me and eight other people to go out to lunch with his dad who was in Chennai for business so the ten of us got off the ship together and met his dad who had hired a driver for the day. Apparently Steven had heard that he could bring ten people but his dad seemed surprised to see so many of us so we had to take two auto rickshaws in addition to the car. First we drove to the fish market on the beach. It smelled very strongly. Then we visited the shrine of St. Thomas and then we headed to lunch at the Sheraton. It was very delicious, as all of the food in India proved to be.
There was so much to experience in India, I’m having trouble putting it into words. I’ll cheat and use part of my travel writing again out of laziness.
…three-wheeled, yellow vehicles because riding in a tut-tut (as the auto rickshaws are affectionately nicknamed) is an adventure in itself.
The adventure begins with choosing a driver, or more likely, being chosen by a driver. If you’re at a popular pick-up place like the harbor gate or outside the shopping mall, expect a swarm of drivers urging you to go with them. When you find the driver who will agree to the least inflated fare, you slide onto the cracked brown fake-leather back seat. If you have a fourth passenger, some lucky person gets to perch on the smaller front seat with the driver. Riding in an auto rickshaw in India is thrilling. You can only see up as high as the top of the tut-tut allows, but the scene is far from boring or void. Buses packed with people, flat-bed trucks painted in bright pastel designs, cars, bicycles, motorcycles carrying entire families, pedestrians, and animals all fight for space on the same roads. The rickshaws should come with an audio recording of “please keep your hands and legs inside the vehicle at all times” because it wouldn’t take much to have your arm knocked off by a car squeezing past at high speed. Or better yet, it would be really easy to reach out and tip over a motorcycle. You’d have to be a pretty evil person for that though since most of the motorcycles are driven by a father who probably has a kid between him and the handlebars, another kid behind him, and the mother in the back, probably holding a baby.
The lanes in India are more like suggestions than rules. A four lane road designed for two lanes going in each direction is more likely to have about eight vehicles abreast at a time and it’s not uncommon for the drivers to swerve into oncoming traffic to pass a stopped bus or cow or car that just isn’t going quite fast enough. A friendly reminder in curlicue font to “sound horn ” is painted on the back of all the trucks and busses. As if anyone wouldn’t honk without being instructed to. Horns are used in place of turn signals. And for everything else. It’s okay to create your own lane or throttle the wrong way down a one way street or drive directly toward a pedestrian, so long as you lay on the horn to warn everyone. Drivers take the honks in stride and gently inch over to avoid collision. Pedestrians yield to cars, cars yield to trucks, trucks yield to buses. Size matters here. A sign above the road says “If you want to stay married, divorce speed.” The general consensus of drivers in India must be indifference or hatred toward their spouses.
While riding in your auto rickshaw/roller coaster from hell, you’ll see filth and beauty. Women in spotlessly clean saris dot the grimy streets with vibrant colors. Every few kilometers there’s at least one gaudy temple along the street. The temples are shaped like pyramids and colored with tacky pinks and greens and yellows and intricate carvings and figures of gods and goddesses. Holy extravagance. Beautiful, clean university and public buildings are nestled between crumbling high rise office and apartment buildings. Men really do pee on the side of the street.
Somehow everything just flows among the filth and chaos and there’s something bright and beautiful poking out from all the dust somewhere in every scene. A flashy temple breaks the monotony of crumbling gray buildings and a shining sari-clad woman stands gracefully on the dirty street.
So that explains the traffic in India for the most part. After the afternoon with Steven’s dad, our group split up since we still didn’t all fit in one vehicle and Steven, Diane, Kristin, Caitlin, and I set out on a mission to buy children’s books and toys to take on the various service projects SAS was going to be involved in during the week. Books in India were dangerously inexpensive. Somehow I limited myself to buying only one novel. I’m really excited to read it when I finish all of my school work. It’s called One Night @ the Call Center. After a couple hours of shopping (we also went to a mall), we returned to the ship. Then I got on a bus for an SAS trip/welcome reception at a (sort-of) nearby hotel. There were local university students, dancers, henna artists, and of course, vendors there to welcome us. We were served delicious snacks and coffee and tea. Indian coffee and tea are brewed with milk and sugar and taste better than anything you can probably imagine.
The next day I went out with the intention of shopping some more with three of my friends. At first all four of us were in one rickshaw but then whether or not he was telling the truth, the driver said it was broken down so we had to split up into two groups, two per vehicle. Anyway. We told them where we wanted to go (one of the fancy new malls we’d heard about) and we agreed on a reasonable price and they said okay and off we went. We spent the whole day shopping and driving around but we never actually made it to the place we said we wanted to go. The drivers all have deals with shopkeepers and so never expect to make it anywhere directly without at least one stop on the way. Since we didn’t have a real agenda, we didn’t argue and kind of enjoyed our tour of sorts. The drivers all liked to have the passengers drive (bad idea) and one of the guys in the other rickshaw drove theirs for a while. Luckily it was on a less crowded street at least. We drove around all day, finally made it to one mall where we ate lunch on the roof. Two of the guys really wanted to see a cobra-mongoose fight so at one point we stopped on the side of some random street where there were men ready to put on a show for us. There wasn’t any sort of cage or barrier between the edge of the broken sidewalk where they told us to sit and the square of dirt where they had a mongoose on a leash and a cobra in a basket. I really couldn’t have wanted any less to see the fight but no one else seemed to care about my opinion. When the men named the price they wanted each of us to pay (I can’t remember exactly, but it was pretty steep), I decided to just not watch. Maybe if they had been paying me to watch I would have but no thanks. So I stood behind the crowd that had gathered (only my three friends were charged, of course). The “fight” only lasted a couple of minutes and when it was over some of the men came toward me with a camera and I thought they were trying to show me a video of the fight so I started refusing then they were like no, please. Turns out they wanted a picture with me. Okay, I don’t mind pretending to be a celebrity. The adventure ended in the afternoon when we were heading to a store for Steven to buy a rugby bat (we were in Chennai during the World Cup) but my rickshaw driver got lost so Stephen and I ended up just going back to the ship. First we went on a wild goose chase looking for the other rickshaw or the store. That was pretty exciting in itself. When we did get back, of course, the driver tried to charge us like $50 US. Didn’t happen. That evening I stayed on the ship with some friends and we watched an episode of Outsourced to keep up the India theme.
The next day I went on another SAS trip to a rural village. They showed us around the village and we learned about rice farming and I even got to plant some rice. Then we went to a coconut farm and got to eat fresh coconut. Very yummy. I’m not a fan of the milk though. After the village we drove to the Dakshinachitra Heritage Center where they served us yet another delicious meal on a banana leaf. The food was the best part of the heritage center. Other than that, we looked at model houses of the southern states of India and some artisans shops.
A lot of my friends were doing homestays so when they got back Wednesday around lunch time, I met up with some of them and a group of us went to the zoo and some temple. I never actually knew the name of it or why that one was chosen because they pretty much all look the same. The zoo was a couple of hours away and there were like eight of us packed into one taxi. It was a station wagon type at least with extra seats in the back. The zoo wasn’t very impressive and we were more of an attraction than any of the exhibits. Groups of people kept coming up wanting pictures with us. We rented bikes and rode around for a little while and then we headed to the temple which was at least another hour away. We were there until it started getting dark when we decided to head back to the ship. We stopped at another delicious restaurant on the way. The bathroom there was the least pleasant experience of my time in India I think.
Thursday I went with SAS on a college and home visit. The college visit was probably my favorite thing I did in India. The students were all really friendly and wanted to know all about us and we learned about them and it was just lovely. (It really was, I’m just tired of writing.) One girl sang for us and a few people danced. The home visit wasn’t as much fun but it was nice. We went to a pretty rich person’s house and just sat around awkwardly in her living room for a few hours. That night I went to a Bollywood movie with five other people. It was a lot better than I expected. Very cheesy, but I really liked it. It was called Patiala House and I’m determined to find the soundtrack when I get home. The theater was at the mall we tried to go to on Monday and it was by far the nicest theater I’ve ever been to or imagined. The bathrooms there were complete opposite from the ones at the restaurant the night before. These had fountains and televisions in each stall.
The last day in India I went on a service visit to the Bala Mandir Orphanage. It was okay, but I’m still not that great at interacting with kids. They were really excited to take pictures with our cameras (the reason I left mine in my bag that day) and they liked the toys and stuff that we brought to donate.
Overall, India was better than I’d expected. Everyone kept saying it was going to be so dirty and smelly and crowded and there would be beggars everywhere, but I really didn’t think it was that bad. It was definitely dirty though. Even if you spent the day inside a seemingly clean or nice place, the water would still turn brown when you got home and washed your hands. It was a pretty good experience though and if the opportunity arose, I would probably go back someday but mostly only to visit the people I met there.